HOW TO CARRY A RELATIONSHIP WHEN U FEELS LIKE WALKING AWAY BY HAMZA

What to do when you feel like giving up

When you said, “I do,” you entered in a relationship with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy. You never intended it to be miserable. Millions of couples are struggling in a desperate relationship. But the story doesn’t have to end there. I believe that in every troubled. Relationship, one or both partners can take positive steps that have the potential for changing the emotional climate in their relationship.”

• Recognize and reject the myths that hold you captive
• Better understand your partner behaviour
• Take responsibility for your own thoughts, feelings, and actions
• Make choices that can have a lasting, positive impact on you and your girl Causes of   breakdown

• Irresponsible
• A workaholic
• Controlling
• Uncommunicative
• Verbally abusive 
• Unfaithful 
• Depressed.   
• Time 

Irresponsible 

People become more irresponsible when they compare to olden days. nowadays people think being in a relationship is just a need    

They don't. Take anything serious it's a major  drawback for the young generation in this wicked world.

  Every person has  little selfishness 

If it doesn't work new will move for another 

Boy or a girl    "when u won't take responsibility for yourself and your faults y you choose another person"  

Try to know your faults and rectify it and   move on

 Give importance time to your partner make them feel warm 

 When you are not near at least try to make an effort. That your message or a call can change person mind 

 Due to lack of communication distance occurs and it leads to end the relationship.

A workaholic

Being a workaholic is a good thing  

 but people think earning money is important.

Think of "our parents are busy in their work they won't show love to us" do you agree that money is important than the love of a parent.

 Same like that when you are in a relationship spend quality time at least an hour with your partner. Maybe who knows. Your ego your clashes   and your hardness will turn into love 

Money can't buy love ❤️ 

Just a costly bed in a hospital 💉   in last days.

 Try to save some time for parent and partners money doesn't make u really  

Controlling

when it comes to controlling partners. Toxic relationships can sneak up 

Many of us visualize a controlling partner as one who openly berates everyone in their path, is physically aggressive, or constantly makes overt threats 

 every server he or she encounters or commands their partner how to dress from head to toe.

Sometimes, the emotional manipulation is complex enough that the person who is being controlled actually believes that they themselves are the villain, or that they are extremely lucky that their controlling partner "puts up" with them

Isolating you from friends and family. 

It may start subtly, but this is often the first step for a controlling person. Maybe they complain about how often you talk to your friend on the phone or say they don't like your parents.

Many controlling people are skilled manipulators at making their partner's own emotions work in the controlling person's favour. If they can manipulate their partners into feeling a steady stream of guilt about everyday goings-on, then a lot of the controlling person's work is done for them—their partners will gradually try to do whatever they can to not have to feel guilty. Often this means relenting and giving up power and their own dissenting opinion within the relationship, which plays right into the controlling person's hand 

Uncommunicative

 God has given a golden gift called communication but. We are not making it useful by our self egos and naming the melodramatic situation called " self-respect"

And making people maintain distance 

It's a new way for separation if u sit and. Clear yours. Negative thoughts and your opinion on both a little change of both people make a life full of worth.

It is far better than full of argument. And. Abusive natures

Verbally abusive

While verbal abuse is always hurtful, it’s not always overt like angry outbursts.

verbal abuse is meant to manipulate and control the victim.

Some people have their own opinion showing faults to decrease their partner 

The silent treatment is a common tactic of a partner  where they choose to abuse you by not using any words 

  You won't get anything being silent or being dumb or by blocking in mobiles. Social media 

Unfaithful 

 As a human, we all have a natural desire for self-gratification. Good food. Good life. Little work. Lots of sleep. 

And in a relationship most essential, 

I’m willing to bet that the word “trust” 

But what happens when trust is broken? That can happen in all sorts of minor ways, but can a relationship thrive again after something as trust-altering 

Forgiveness doesn’t have to be instant.

A lot of people want magic and an instant fix, but rebuilding trust takes a lot of work. This can be frustrating for the partner who cheated, but forgiveness that is authentic is much more important than forgiveness that is quick, which can cause even more problems down the road.  

Rebuilding trust is about the intentions of both partners 

 both parties open to working through what happened, or is one going to hold a grudge? For true and authentic healing, this process has to be a two-way street. This takes different amounts of patience and grace from person to person and couple to couple.

 My suggestion

It's better to make urself reveal about you 

What are you doing your habits and your interests? Maybe he or she can change or module themself to makes life easier and happier

Depressed

Why depression ruins the relationship

It is a  difficult illness that darkens your thoughts and feelings

Depression cause self-doubt, which can show you view your partner and how you think they view you.

 You think that she doesn't like me 

She lost her interest on me she is not getting what happen to her 

A little change in partner cause self-doubt

These. Self-doubt leads miss-communication it causes distance trust issues and leads to the end 

Time

Spending quality time is necessary for a relationship

 Do you get to see your partner all the time  Or, do you only see each other once in a while? Whatever the case is, it’s essential to spend quality time with your partner to strengthen your bond, keep the love alive, as well as make the relationship itself grow.

 We can spent time playing games cooking

Bike rides 

Long vacation 

Having fun

And cuddling by talking or discussing the issues 

Because our humans have a " corystal" hormone which balances stress but cuddling or hugging 

Can decrease this e

 It's all about to enjoy each other company

When u don't have any feel u still busy with your things like watching tv or. Using mobile or doing something u doesn't need a partner single life is grateful 

 Clouser

  Life will teach us many things but we need to moulded and accept everything escapism is common nowadays don't escape from love or separating partner 

If u lost one u will do same its better to  don't loss our self respect